Turning Your World Up-Side-Down

            There may have fundamental ideas about yourself and Human relationships that might not only be wrong, but perfectly opposite to the truth of self, and the "ways" of Human relationships.

           We were taught that we are limited, as in we do not have all that we need, as in we start out with nothing. We may not have all that we want in the material sense, but we absolutely have all that we need in the spiritual sense. Yes, Human relationship is a spiritual thing, an inner thing.

            The vast majority of relationships end badly. WHY?

             We are taught to go out to find someone to love us. This means we were taught that we have no love until someone give us love. This mean we are entering into relationships without love. This means we are not taking love into the relationship. We enter into relationships in the worst state, in need. And we know what "needy" people are like, they are possessive and controlling people. And in this emotionally "needy" state, we create relationships of negative competition, with both parties fighting for love. Come on, if both parties enter into the relationship looking for love, they are both without love to give. Due to this, we concentrate on encouraging our partner to love us. And this, without talking about the different ways each person wants to be loved. We do not concentrate on encouraging our partners to love themselves, which is the true expression of love. We do not encourage our partners to become so strong, psychologically and emotionally, that they do not need us to give them love, or even to be with them. We do not concentrate on making our partners strong and independent. Some people deliberately make their partner psychologically and emotionally weak, in order for them to become dependent. WHY? Because in many ways we are taught to live in fear.Fear of being alone. Fear of not finding love.
             
             We should not have been taught to find someone to love us. We should not have been made to feel that we start out with nothing. We should have been taught that we have all the love we need.
             Simply then. Love is the conscious experience of the energy that is created by the perfect union of the opposites. You are the perfect union of the opposite essences of your father and mother. Know then, that YOU ARE LOVE itself.

             Then what is the purpose of relationships? Primarily, they are to inspire you to learn how to experience and express the love you are.